Securing a great future with your spouse - Ify Ike

Eeefy Ify Ike

To have a great future with your man is to build that future with him! You should participate in the building of the healthy and rich lifestyle you desire! Do not relegate yourself to the background when it comes to responsibilities... You should be willing to join forces with him to solve financial problems, even if you're limited to offering only advice because of lack of employment. Women are natural born managers and so such skill can do great justice in this situation.

It is better for a woman to manage the family finances, as long as her relationship with the man is based on love. Learn to be resourceful!

I advice you to find a job, even if it is practical work or trading, anything that will earn you money to ease the financial burden on your partner. Remember, he is your future and so you must help him build! Besides the need for you to contribute it is also healthier and more dignified for you to support your man than for you to be a user.

Even if your mate is rich you should still work to contribute little things... just buying him little gifts can help build the bond and happiness in your relationship as such act of kindness will reveal to him the substance of your personality and level of feelings towards him. Work to save money for a rainy day, meaning should he collide with any problem and is handicapped to the point where he can no longer support the family you will be in the position to help!

I have come to notice that there is a certain type of man who cheats on his spouse but will never want to break away from her because of all her contributions to his success and well being that many women will not do. Not to justify or advocate infidelity but men who are inclined to cheating tend to be more sensitive towards a mate who cared, sacrificed and built with them. A man of strength and character appreciates and respects a woman that contributes to their relationship! His loyalty is with you and no woman will ever replace you or share your position in his life. Even when there are challenges in the relationship which is natural, he will put more effort to resolve them accordingly, and reconcile with you.

The act of caring, sacrificing, and building with your mate embeds your image/spirit into his soul...it's the height of bonding for two people who are together. Bonding prolongs a relationship.

May The Holy Spirit guide you accordingly, in Jesus name...Amen!